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When I have a bad experience, I immediately go into solutioning mode. I assess, audit, and try to determine how to avoid similar negativity in the future. Some might call it a commitment to learning and improving, but I know myself well enough to know better. Deep down, it's really about my impulse to control my environment so that I don't get hurt, and that's not really how we learn. Sure, there are some things within my power to control and I should always be looking to imp

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